Lesson Plan: “Advice”
This was a lesson plan I created as the final project for my first semester in the TESOL program at Front Range Community College. I have not yet used it with any of my classes but would like to at some point!
ESL class level: Intermediate
Unit theme: Relational Interactions
Learning objectives: Students will be able to read
advice-related text, discuss possibilities and consequences, and ultimately
write about a time they (or someone they know) faced a dilemma.
Language objectives: Students will be able to identify
common words of advice such as should,
could, would, can, might, will, must, do/don’t,
and other imperative verbs, and observe their meanings and functions.
How will students build background
knowledge for this lesson? Students will practice reading and discussing advice in the
context of advice columns.
Essential questions:
● Can
you think of a time you gave or received advice for a problem in life?
● Do
you think seeking advice is helpful, or do you prefer to solve problems on your own?
● Why
would someone ask a stranger for advice versus a friend or family member?
Materials needed: white board, projector (optional),
advice columns printed out and cut up for match activity.
Warm-up:
The
instructor will introduce the word “advice” and check for understanding of its
meaning. Then they will model a brief example of a time they looked for advice
and ask the following questions of the class. (Questions will be posted on the board or projector for reference.)
Discuss
with a partner:
Can you think of a time you needed
advice for something important? Did you ask a stranger or someone you know? Do
you think seeking advice is helpful, or do you prefer to solve problems on your
own?
After
partner discussion, students will be asked to share with the class.
The
instructor will then introduce the concept of the “advice column” and the class
will read a couple of questions and answers together (go around and read
portions aloud one at a time). Students should underline or circle words they
are not familiar with (meaning and/or pronunciation).
Example
1 (from “Ask Erin” by Erin Khar; edited.)
Q.
I let my boyfriend of almost two years move in, due to him
getting kicked out of his brother's place. I wasn't sure of the idea but the
thought of paying half of everything seemed nice while trying to rebuild our
relationship.
It's been about a month and I feel like his mom.
And I don't trust him.
He lies about dumb things like who is dropping him off at work
or picking him up. I pay for all the groceries and pick up the house and do our
laundry, etc. I feel more like his mother than his girlfriend.
I want things to work, but I'm tired of the lies and feeling
like this. What should I do?
A.
Stop doing his laundry. Stop cleaning up after him.
I know how hard it can be to let go of that control. I struggle
with this. But almost invariably, people will do these things for themselves
when they are forced to do so. And if he does not, then you can have boundaries
in place for that as well.
Tell him you cannot live with him if he does not contribute to
the expenses and household chores. Make a list of what your shared expenses
are, so it is clear what he is required to contribute. Likewise, make a list of
daily and weekly chores and divide them up. Allow him to be a part of that
decision making. Maybe he hates doing laundry, so let him be in charge of trash
and dishes.
No matter how much you want this to work or how much you love
him, you don’t deserve to be lied to or forced into the role of mommy.
Communicate, set those boundaries, and, if he doesn’t change,
get him out of your home and move on.
Example
2 (from “Ask Amy,” by Amy Dickinson; edited.)
Dear Amy, I’m a 45-year-old woman, married to my
wife for five years. My issue is my 21-year-old son, who lives with us. He’s a
good kid but he’s now unemployed (for four months) and spends his days playing
video games.
My son is very book smart, had a full ride to a prestigious
university, but only stayed for a year and a half.
He recently applied for the police academy, but he never really
follows through with anything. He also dropped out of the fire academy –
because he was bored.
He was working as a forklift operator while in
school. He’s always done very well in school, but he’s lazy.
I’m always trying to get my ex-husband to motivate him.
My wife and I have never lived alone our entire marriage, and she’s
getting frustrated. I feel like I have to choose my wife or my son. Honestly
I’m torn and now they are starting to argue more with each other.
Please help.
– Torn in Wisconsin
Dear Torn: Your unemployed adult son living at home is not “your”
issue. Overall, this is everyone’s issue, but mainly it is his – and his main
task right now should be to solve his own problem.
Don’t count on his father to motivate him – he is not living in his
father’s house.
You and your wife should approach this as equal partners in your
household, and you should present a united strategy for how to parent him into
adulthood.
He needs to get a job. At a fast-food drive-thru, a landscaping
crew, the Walmart warehouse, or wherever he can get hired.
Working a full day will give him a skill set, some money in his
pocket, and self-esteem.
I would cut the wireless at your house during the day, stop paying
for his cellphone, and offer him only a roof over his head and nourishment
until he can afford other housing. I know this is tough, but your marriage is
on the line, and so is his future.
After
reading through the advice, check for vocab/pronunciation understanding!
Discussion
question: Why do you think some people
want to ask a stranger for advice?
Direct instruction:
The
instructor will take printed-out advice columns that have been cut into
advice-seeker and advice-giver portions.
The instructor will then divide the class into two “teams” (seekers and
responders) and distribute the advice column portions to the appropriate sides.
A student from the “seeker” team will read their portion of the text – the
letter asking for advice. The student on
the “responder” team with the corresponding answer must recognize the
appropriate response and read it aloud in answer to the seeker. Once everyone has gone, distribute different
answers/responses and have the teams switch roles.
Example
of an advice column that can be printed and cut up (from https://languagesnaps.com/english/material/advice-column-esl/):
Dear Language Snaps,
I just moved to a country where I don’t speak
the language or know a single person. You might ask, what could have brought me
to this new country and the answer is my job. When the offer presented itself,
I was skeptical because I’ve never left the city I was born in! I knew it might
be a risk, but I took the job and moved. Now that I’m here I feel so blue! I have no friends,
and, without the language, I can’t communicate with anyone! I’ve never been so
lonely in my life. The job assignment is a whole year and I’ve been here for
three long months already. What should I do?
Thanks,
Lonely
Dear Lonely,
You sure do seem lonely! You knew it was a risk when you took the
job that you might be lonely. Without the language, you’re in a pickle. You should sign up for
language courses and delve into the language. You should also take this time to
become your own best friend- get to know yourself better. As soon as you come to terms with your new situation
everything will feel better.
Sending a hug,
Lonely
The
instructor will ask the students what they notice about the common words used
by the person giving advice. How do they
tell the advice-seeker what to do? As the students point out common words, the
instructor will write them on the board and
check for meaning and function.
What kinds of words do advice-givers
use? What about people looking for advice?
Guided practice:
The
instructor will post a dilemma on the board or projector and provide structured
sentence prompts:
You must feel ____________.
I think you should
__________________.
If you __________, you would/will
____________________.
You could _______________.
You might _____________.
You can ____________.
Don’t ________________.
Students
will write 2 to 3 sentences of advice using any combination of sentences above,
or come up with their own. They will
share their responses with a partner, and then responses will be discussed
together as a class.
Student
responses will be written on the board. They can copy these to have for
reference later.
Evaluation:
Students
will write about a time they gave or got advice and share with the group. They
can use the sentence structures posted earlier or come up with their own.
Expansion/Homework (choose one):
Option
1: Students will draw a word from a hat.
Examples: cooking, home, family,
work, pets, kids. They will pretend
to be someone with a problem about their prompt word and write a letter/e-mail
to an advice columnist.
Option
2: Write about different places people go for advice.